Man oh man. Anyone who has been following me for any length of time knows how much my grandparents mean to me.  Losing my father to the receiving end of a bullet when I was a kid and my mother  not being a parent left me with one of my favorites aunts being like a big sister and a best friend to this day and my grandparents being the center of my universe in that regard. My grandfather is the strongest man I have ever known. A sharpshooter in the Marines in WW2 and a fisherman out at sea 5 or 6 days a week the rest of his life.  An old school waterman on the Atlantic and the Chesapeake.  Big old wooden oyster boats and a small crew of 2 or 3 additional men living with him on the boats over the years when he is out at sea. Now he is 90 and he sticks to his smaller boat and just does crabs now.  He still does manual labor 5 everyday. Out on his boat pulling his crab pots 5 days a week and  either making crab new crab post by hand, chopping wood or working in his garden when he’s not on the water. His garden however is the size of a frickin’ small farm practically. lol.

….Well almost 2 weeks ago now he had a stroke. That’s why I have not been too chatty. Things like this bring out the bad AND the good in any family and mine is no different.  It brings up an inner conflict in me as well. I grew up on the coast of Virginia in a city called Hampton. That never felt like home to me however. Home to me was 2 hours away at my grandparents house and the pictures below are just a small part of the reason why. The main reason was the 2 amazing people who lived there ( grandparents). Bottom line , my family is there and I lived there until I was a teenager but I have lived on the west coast ever since so most of my life has been spent out west.  I want and even need to be closer to my family but my life and my work has been and is out west. If only I could be in 2 places at once.

The pics below are just a tiny part of my grandparents house. It’s the dock out back. They live on several acres right on this water in Virginia. It’s so beautiful. So many memories. The most special place in the world to me

bet you wish your granddaddy could catch and steam crabs like these too huh? lol. Yep.  Steamed Blue Crabs with the best spices all over them. My Grandaddy caught and cooked these …xo

Ok so you know that movie “What’s Your Number?” starring Anna Faris? It’s the movie where she reads this article in some chick magazine about how 96% of American females are unable to find a husband if they have slept with over 20 people. It also claims that the average number of people women have slept with is 10.5. She freaks out and doesn’t want to add to her list so she starts looking up her exes because she’s already slept with them.

Anyway…..some friends and me were up watching it last night and it sparked a whole conversation about what our personal “numbers” were/are. When we were each doing our personal sexual inventory ( making our lists) , this one girl chimed in and asked the following question “Do people I fucked for money and/or rapes count?”. I couldn’t stop laughing. Not at the rape part but the sex for money and the question in general. Granted I do have a very dark sense of humor BUT…it’s fucking funny right?! Then I thought about it. Hmmmm. Do tricks count? Do rapes count? What do you think?

Nikki

xoxox

Hey all you sexy people. It is Monday May 20th and there is a members only cam/chat scheduled for tonight.  It will be starting one hour later than it is currently scheduled just FYI. This means that it will now be starting at 8:00 PM Pacific time/11:00 PM Eastern Time. Adjust for your time zone accordingly and I will see you there!!

xoxox

Nikki Nova

I posted the following on my public/work page on FB but I am posting it here too just so everyone is aware. Bare with me in the meantime
“Ugh. Been having major computer issues for weeks. Wasn’t a big deal when I was away but damn it is an issue now that I am back and trying to work. Been installing programs all nighty on my back up computer so I can work. DO NOT post any comments or send me any “suggestions”. I hate when ppl do that. I have the best techs around and it is being handled. I am only posting this so that you guys know why I am not currently as active on my social media and messaging right now. I am weeks behind in work and that is my priority and focus right now. Please just bare with me and be patient. This week may be a bit busy with other things as I play catch up. Hope you are all having and amazing week…or at least better than I have been having. LOL xoxoxo”

Ok so due to the major computer issues I have been having I am a little bit behind in everything and I apologize to you guys about that. There is a video update of me scheduled for today and usually it is up at the crack of dawn but it will be up later this evening. It will still be up today but it will just be up later this evening. Thank you and I hope you are all having an amazing day!

xoxox

Nikki Nova

www.nikkinova.com

Hello all. Well I just started a few things. Every week on my site you get a pic/video update of me but also a candid update called “Real Nikki” updates and a pic of the week ( that’s new) and also a live ca,/chat. Pretty good right?  Yes except you get a LOT more also. There are also 13 other websites in my members are so there are anywhere from 2 to 6 updates a day every single day.

Example- Yesterdays updates in the members area-

*Pic of the week ( me)

*Video of Anissa Kate

*Photo set of Amber Lynn Bach

Today-   *Candid/ “Real Nikki” photos

*Photo set of Kiara Diane

Every single day something fun. xoxoxoxox

Definitely time to log in to www.nikkinova.com !!!

xoxox

Nikki Nova

Things have been so great. I mean just amazing days and so much to be happy about and then….at about 4 am this morning my computer decided to make my life hell. I have been working on it for over 8 hrs and counting. Hey…I guess I was due. hahahahaha

My tweets and FB posts and other things may be on pause for a few days or at least very minimal while I get this worked out and my work caught up on first. GRRRRR

Ok This week there has been a LOT of discussion about gay marriage and whether or not it should be legal. I do not know where those of you who are reading this stand on the issue but I am 100% in support of gay and lesbian couples having the right to marry if they wish. Honestly pretty much everyone I know feels the same way because I am not friends with bigots , or at least I did not think so.

On FB we are all friends with people that maybe we knew a very long time ago and re-connected with through Facebook. Right? Well I was friends with someone when I was 14 and 15 that I reconnected with on there. When we were young he was more of a hippie and had a hippie mentality. Open and loving to all so I was very surprised to see what he had become in his mentality. Over the past few days many people on FB have been showing support for marriage equality. He apparently felt the need to speak up and be heard and I do support that just to be clear. It’s just that what I heard changed my opinion of him.  He first just posted that He was “NOT in support of gay marriage and that it is just another way for more people to fraud the tax System!”  I thought it was  a joke at first and he was making fun of the bigots and their obviously stupid arguments but after seeing comments back and forth after that , I realized that he was serious!

I finally posted a comment and simply said

Me: “Scott I have to say something here. I happen to know some gays and lesbian couples who have been together longer than most straight couples I know and would like to have the same medical , legal and tax rights as everyone else.  There are men and women who get married to commit fraud all the time. Some for tax purposes and then there’s immigration weddings for example. Should we make straight marriages illegal to avoid the small percentage that are doing it for the fraudulent reasons? Come on man. You’re better than this”

Him: “I am not going to change my mind on this so I can be better in your eyes”.

Me:  ”It is my mind that has been changed here…..about you”.

Yes he was that bitchy and childish. Literally like a bitchy little teenager and yes I unfriended that person. I saw his other arguments and they were just all so ignorant and it was just the voice of another bigot who didn’t realize he was a bigot and truly believed his arguments were intelligent.  Clearly to try to get him to just open his mind and see the other perspective and why was  waste of time considering how childish he was that I dare point out the obvious reasons his argument made no “legal” sense and also to say that I know he is better than this.  Well let me run his other arguments/comments  them by you and you can see for yourself that it’s just …not very intelligent as far as “legal argument” and quite frankly just pretty unintelligent overall in my opinion.

He then started that he doesn’t believe in marriage at all so gay marriage should not be made legal because that’s just more opportunity for people to fraud the system.

me rebuttle-

Anyone who knows me knows that I personally do not believe in marriage either for MYSELF. I do not however think that gives me or anyone the right to legally impose my beliefs on others.  If someone wishes to get married then they should have that right and if someone doe snot wish to get married they also should have that right. To tell 2 people that they do not have the same right to get married because of their genitalia is not much different than making someone get married who doesn’t want to.

In addition to that there are couples who can’t see their mates in the hospital or share the same last name and have their children have the same last name as the two of them to truly be a family in the same way that heterosexual couples can. Their are also legal rights in the case of death, property and medical decisions. It is not about tax fraud to those incredibly narrow minded bigots who are arguing this pathetic point as their actual reason. I am not saying that there won’t be some couples that may commit fraud.  As I stated earlier there are plenty of straight couples that do as well. That is a very small percentage however compared to the majority that just want to be able to legally bind their love, themselves and their family in the same way that so many others have a right to.  Think about that.

Well I have heard about “Spring Fever” my entire life.  I definitely have seen it but this year it just seems stronger for some reason , at least in regards to me and my personal experiences.  Obviously in my line of work I get hit on a lot. Constantly actually. everyday all day on twitter and cam and FB and email. It’s just the nature of this business and it’t to be expected. I mean it’s a business based on human sexuality so….come on? lol

It’s just that my personal life is being affected by this change in seasons and it’s effect. Out of nowhere a few very attractive, quality men are making their feelings known….and I gotta say…it’s pretty sexy. The question is…will I continue to be a good girl as I always am in my private life….or will I be bad this year? lol

Something to ponder..xo

Yes it’s true. I am absolutely head over heels IN LOVE…..but not with a person. I am addicted to aerial yoga. I have been doing so many different kids of yoga for years but aerial is hands down the most fun. I am IN LOVE with this yoga. SO MUCH FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The past couple of days I haven’t been able to get out of bed. I had this lower back ache on my left side that just got progressively worse to the point that I could’t sleep or do anything. I called my Chiro first thing in the a.m and was so worried he wouldn’t be able to see me. He fit me in and saw me within a few hours of us speaking. Apparently my muscle that wraps around my hip joint and connects to my lower vertebra as well as ones in my ass was just seized up and in deep spasm. He worked on the muscles for a while and then cracked me and told me to go home and not do anything but rest. I did. It still hurts but it’s better than it was and I go back and see him again next week probably. Ok so for all of you that just LOVE the booty you need to remember it is just one big muscle and it sometimes attacks. lol. I will be on cam the next few days a lot providing my ass lets me. lol. I haven’t had a massage in months because my masseuse is 9 months preggers and i just don’t trust anyone else to work on that particular muscle. Guess I better learn to. Any volunteers? ahahaha